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I have a simple question about black women and why they get mad because of this?

Ok i work for the phone company, my best friend there is african american.. He is a good guy, never been in jail, doesn’t wear his pants half way off his butt and has an education, there is also african american women that work in customer service, we are both data engineers with the company and he is very smart.. So there are two girls (black) that he likes in customer service and he tried to ask one out which said no and the other one that said no and gossip got around about trying to ask the girls out which he had no problem.. We sat down and he told me he always had problems dating african american women in the past to them not giving him a chance etc.. Now he is going out with a hispanic woman who is BEAUTIFUL that he brought to our christmas party and the black girls that turned him down was talking shit, saying how can be date a hispanic woman and crap, but why would they even care who he dates if they were the ones who turned him down in the first place??

They are just some confused hood-rats, that is all and anybody that they haven’t seen around the way or hear of in the ‘hood they don’t consider because that is the culture of a lot of black folk, if you tell ‘em this they’ll get mad but it is true but all of a sudden any other black person with a clean background and a good personality is considered lame or a “square” I have those kind of people in my family and really they just live for the moment and gossip like hell froze over, it is a major way to socialize with black people, I meet new people and socialize.

But mostly I associate and socialize for the sake of socializing but a lot of people don’t make it to being friends because I don’t like a lot of people and how they go with the flow, as I’ve been saying I am puposely not heavily cultured, I have more than a few good friends who can relate to me and differ from me but they keep it real and appreciate me and vice verse. I have friends that are more cultured than I am and whenever we hang out and they introduce me to their other friends it is like aw she is really nice and a “good-girl” sometimes I hate being introduced to new people that I know I have nothing in common with except we are both black.

I’d rather be innocent than guilty as charged and plus I am more than average attractive so a lot of people tell me that it is too good to be true and I am a bit of a tease do to my nature, at least I am honest, I am just an attractive “square” by nature and proud of it. My other friends don’t even have to introduce me to their people most of the time, people can just look at me and tell and they will compliment me or what not or tell me what they think but I don’t take it personal, but really I know just as well as they know that I don’t fit in with them and neither do I want to because I like the way that I am and am proud of it, I”d rather be sanely square then trying to figure out who my real friends are and club-hopping every other day and pretending to be rich with a play brother or father that is a rich drug king pin that is in and out of jail every year, another Winter Santiaga if you will, too many chicks with split personalities that want to come off as good but are really not.

Better that I am honest with myself than living a lie or miserable, seeing how most black people that I encounter are I find it disgusting and if I were that way I’d be just as miserable as they seem to be, they can say they are not but I know the treachery and personal turmoil that the drama kings and queens go through (it comes with the territory when you go hard like that) and I laugh at it. Some personally live for drama and can pull it off and those are the ones that usually have the power to control other people socially because well it feels good when you have that kind of power (again it’s with the territory), others want it but are only average so can’t obtain it, others go for a whole nother mission and I myself am on a whole nother mission. At least the girls at your job aren’t pretending to be good and are openly ghetto, those are the best because they don’t pretend to be something they are not, they just all out brag about it and just like they are proud of themselves I am proud of myself for being the way I am, I help represent for all the sexy good-girls that haven’t gone bad without at least 2 different baby-daddies that either end up on Maury or welfare. Ha ha! Good for your friend though, he deserves to enjoy his life without all the negativity, they turned him down and he came with something better.

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